Male obsessions.....

Why is it that men obsess so much about sex?

Is it just men? Are women as utterly obsessed with it as men are??????????

I've been obsessing about sex lately. The whole "not having it" part is enough to obsess about, but lately I obsess about all aspects of sex. What the opposite gender thinks, what they want, who's having sex, who isn't, who's being deviant and why, what is sexual deviance, all these thoughts ramble through my head.

I talk about sex alot with a friend of mine, a girl, and they're normally fairly open conversations. But what is it about men, in general, that makes us look for sex in so many places. Porn is mainly focused at men, or at least the thought process behind porn is that men want to see the explicitness of fucking, while women want the eroticism and romance. I don't know if that's necessarily true, but it sure as hell feels right.

Now specifically in my case, I like porn. It's kind of embarassing at times to admit that, but it's true. I watch porn every now and then, I read erotica, and I look at women. I don't mean in a leacherous way or anything, but I look.

But do men ever consider that porn isn't reality? We, as a gender, get so inundated with hardcore fucking scenes, with hairless women who have more implants than hair club for men members. Not to mention all the faked female orgasms. Do we really think that we'll fuck that kind of woman? And if we do, why do we want to? I've fantasized about those kinds of women, but honestly that's not the kind of woman that arouses me.

What do women consider erotic or sexy? Is it male hair? Dick size? Or might it be something that has nothing to do with fucking in and of itself? I really don't know. Whatever it is, I don't have it, or else I'd be having sex.

My ex-brother-in-law is a great guy but women are meat to him, something to eat, devour, barely savour, and then shit away. And that disgusts me, but there is something about him that women go for.

Who knows. I sure don't.